Post by Trev Williams on Dec 4, 2007 15:47:08 GMT -1
I just wanted to know what people think about this theory.. I often find bad things happen in clums (as also some good things happen in clumps although this is less common).. I think maybe it's a state of mind where if something bad happens in a day you perhaps look more pessimistically onto other events and they seem to be bad as well... often this trait can lead to depression..
I had a couple of cancelations, and my website isn't working
this made me sad.. but really they aren't very significant, and it is just my state of mind which assumes everything is going wrong.. and will continue to do so..
after gigs (a natural high sometimes) I often find I can meet new people, talk with self confidence etc. but if like the other night I percieve a gig isn't good then I will disregard any positive feedback I get as negative (my brain often flaws itself by doing this.. a compliment might be taken as sarcastic, or unmeant).. I guess a positive mindset is what I lack sometimes.. and self confidence in what I do.
bad things happen in 3s
Trev
I had a couple of cancelations, and my website isn't working
this made me sad.. but really they aren't very significant, and it is just my state of mind which assumes everything is going wrong.. and will continue to do so..after gigs (a natural high sometimes) I often find I can meet new people, talk with self confidence etc. but if like the other night I percieve a gig isn't good then I will disregard any positive feedback I get as negative (my brain often flaws itself by doing this.. a compliment might be taken as sarcastic, or unmeant).. I guess a positive mindset is what I lack sometimes.. and self confidence in what I do.
bad things happen in 3s
Trev